The biggest breakthrough came for us when we learned how to communicate more effectively by using the tool called the “Assertive Formula”. It taught us how to bring up an issue without stirring up defensiveness or fights, and we actually resolve the issue like we are on the same team. The videos supported us in applying the tools to our unique relationship. Kevin Miller (Growing Deeper Marriage Study)
Going to see Abigail & Scott was so easy; they were welcoming, caring, and relatable. I am normally very reserved and shy but they allowed me to really open up. We have learned how to communicate in a healthy way and love each other in a way that we didn’t know was possible before. Our relationship is stronger because of coaching...now we recognize parts of each other’s personality and quirks we didn’t know existed. Julee (Coaching client)
I loved the time to apply what we were learning during the workshop. I enjoyed the videos...great introductions to the topics. The teachings were the perfect balance of humor, information, scripture and challenge.Bill and Kelisa (Growing Strong Workshop)
I think that all couples long for some sort of mentoring to help create a strong marriage, especially if you did not grow up in a Christian home or come from an unstable family-of-origin. I loved the fact that all sessions started with bringing God into the equation first (going vertical) and were based on Scripture. I can also see that Scott and Abigail started with that equation themselves because they seem to have been truly inspired by God to share what they have learned to help other couples. Deena and Gary (Growing Strong Workshop)
In response to, "How will the workshop impact your relationship?": "Greatly! My husband and I are looking forward to using the tools we learned today to make every day together better." and "The workshop was great. Scott and Abigail were helpful at answering all questions without anyone feeling uncomfortable or judged."Olivia Salvatore
"I learned several things today that I feel will benefit our relationship today, and years down the road. The thing that I'm going to focus on is the reality that my spouse loves me just as much as I love her, but we have different ways to show it!"Hayden Layman
"This is a foundation-based premarital workshop that is practical and useful. It will help us with communication and managing of our relationship."Elizabeth Basham
"The workshop provided us with tools to strengthen our relationship and how we communicate with each other."Tiffany Boyd
In response to: "How would you describe this workshop to a friend?", "Fun. Very informative, relaxing and no pressure."Stephen Enlow
"I loved how hands-on everything was. I also love how you were willing to show the tough times y'all went through together and how you worked through it and came out stronger. Very powerful story."Jacob Hicks
"This workshop provides a snapshot of who we are as individuals and as a couple. Abigail and Scott lead you through personality assessments, relationship goal-setting and conflict management with great examples and discussion." and "This day provided us with tools to help us better navigate this new season of life."
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We are excited to meet you...and until then, we hope you will stay here awhile and find what you need. Our passion is growing strong relationships, and we are committed to developing curriculum and resources to help YOU. Even before we were married we knew we wanted to do this. That means 25 years of dreaming, planning, pursuing, falling off the path and refocusing.
We hope you see the fruit of that journey when you attend a workshop, come for coaching or bring us into your group. You will find that we are authentic, real, fun and challenging. We are glad to join you on your path to being all you can be-- let us know how we can help.
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